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Can you take instruction from a woman?

April 29, 2011 by philip copeland Leave a Comment


Building on this blog post from last week, Sharon Hansen gives us some things to think about:
 
What might be some of the chilly conditions that female professors of myriad disciplines experience along their tenure journey? Why do these conditions exist? Especially for the young female choral conductor, negotiating the tenure path as a woman in a traditionally male profession, what are some of the pitfalls she may encounter? Bernice Sandler describes a number of ingrained, societal, sex-biased behaviors confronting female professors:

· Gender affects how we view competence, and how we evaluate competence.
· If a woman has success, it often is attributed to luck or affirmative action.
· Women are expected to be more warm and motherly.
· Women are supposed to make people feel good, to be emotional soothers.
· Women are expected to smile, be friendly, and not look serious.
· Women are not supposed to challenge students and make them feel uncomfortable.
· Women are not expected to be strong, dynamic, intellectual teachers.

· At the same time that students may expect more caring and warm behavior from a woman faculty member, they may nevertheless interpret such behavior as weakness, perhaps seeing it as “too feminine.” However, should a woman faculty member act in a strong and assertive member–like her male colleagues–she may be viewed as “too masculine.” Thus, women faculty are often caught in a double bind: no matter how they act, their behavior is “not quite right.”

If you like this, read the book!

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  1. philip copeland says

    May 3, 2011 at 5:41 pm

    Sorry it took a day – but the changes are done!
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  2. Sharon Hansen says

    May 2, 2011 at 11:18 pm

    Hi Philip – 
     
    Please make two teeny corrections to the above:
     
    (1)  My name is Sharon HansEn, not Sharon HansOn
     
    (2)  It isnt my book – it is a collaborative effort by a number of our colleagues.  Simply say “If you like this, read the book!”
     
    Many thanks, Philip!
    Sharon
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  3. Marie Grass Amenta says

    May 2, 2011 at 11:27 am

    I bought this book at the ACDA conference in March and it is sitting on my desk right now.  I’ll read it when I get a chance, probably after my June concerts.
     
    You have hinted here about a few things women conductors have to think about.  And my gender is one of the reasons I am doing what I do now and not teaching at a college or university as I had dreamed of doing.  That doesn’t mean, however,  I am not doing what I love and what I’ve come to realise is my passion–conducting a chamber choir.
     
    I’ve come to be comfortable in my own skin, accept my life and be happy.  I am married, have used my uterus several times and am short and “cute”, also several strikes against me. And yet, those things make me willing to try new things and not be locked in to what everyone “thinks” I have to be. It’s a freedom many male conductors don’t have and I believe I am lucky.
     
    I used to direct a local children’s choir and I have had several MALE singers think I treat my adults the same way……not true, but a male conductor would not be accused of such a thing. Last concert cyle, I insisted a bass come to our last two rehearsals–after missing three rehearsals right before being “sick”, missing because of a another rehearsal and going to a wake–and he was quite upset because I told him I would not allow him to sing the concert after all those absences.  He came to those two rehearsals and made a fuss and made sure I knew he wasn’t happy–he is no longer singing with me by the way.  I know a male conductor would not be treated this way, would not be called a witch or would not have their firm decisions about rehearsals be questioned. And I accept that and have moved on.
     
    Take care, Philip.  I hope you and your family are okay after that bit of heavy weather in your neck of the woods.  You see, it is more important to me to be a good and kind and concerned person, than someone stern and serious.  As a woman, I think of those things because I care about PEOPLE and it is who I am–I can’t help it.
     
    Marie
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