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Two Words

November 5, 2010 by Tim Sharp Leave a Comment


I have a research project I am pursuing this Thanksgiving month (Thursday, November 25, in the U.S.), and I would love to have others join me in their own personalized version of this process.
 
Immediately after I graduated from High School, my family moved to the other end of the state. That fall, I went to college, and did not return to the town of my High School until a class reunion a couple of years ago. The school was now a Middle School, the modular building used for the choir room was gone, and there was no trace of the legacy of my choir other than the auditorium where the accompanying picture of me was taken while I was performing Don McLean's American Pie.
 
The distance from that period of my life, the distance from the actual location, and most poignantly, the thought that a few people like me were the only legacy of that choral tradition, made me realize that I had some unfinished business from high school, middle school, and elementary school.
 
My research project this Thanksgiving month has been to identify all of my teachers, from High School back to early childhood, that made a memorable contribution to my education, values, and musical life, and to write to them individually to say “thank you.” I  started with the earliest teachers; the ones that only parents think to thank–Mary Ewin Hadden (1st grade), Audrey Cox (2nd grade), Gertrude Lucas (3rd grade), Lucille Brooks (4th grade), Chester Marie Alcott (5th grade), Bethel Hatfield (6th grade)–they nurtured my love for music in church, school, and community, and incorporated music into many of my learning activities. I still recall important lessons through musical experiences offered by non-specialist teachers in my early school years. I cannot imagine what the confusing process of growing up would have been like without music as a mentor, and I thank my early childhood teachers for knowing that music is a natural part of life and learning.
 
I will also write to  thank my junior high school band teacher, Robert Martin, for his endless patience as I struggled to learn to play the clarinet, when what I really wanted to play was the saxophone. I will thank my high school choral teacher, Jane Dressler, for rescuing me from chemistry by suggesting I join choir. She also suggested I sing American Pie for our school Variety Show, as she continued to encourage me to sing.
 
I will write them to say the two words that any teacher loves to hear, but doesn’t expect to hear: “Thank You.”

 

 

 

 

 

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  1. Mary Jane Phillips says

    November 11, 2010 at 8:57 pm

    Tim
     
    One of my mentors at TCU was the incredible Dr. Ruth Whitlock. She taught Choral Methods, Ear Traning, Chapel Choir, Choral Lab and mostly, about life in her classes.  🙂 She infuenced countless choir directors who now teach at every level from kindergarten to college and still speak her name with reverence. Other than my own parents, no person in the world was ever a bigger infuence on me. She became ill from breast cancer in the early 1990’s and then went into remission. A group of her former students decided we needed to thank her since we had been given a second chance to do so while she was well and happy.  We had a surprise dinner for her, with each going around the table and telling her what she had meant to us.  She was thrilled beyond words. When the cancer returned less than a year later, her students (past and present) shopped for her groceries, taught her classes at TCU, sat by her side in the hospital, drove her to school (her last act on earth was teaching her Choral Methods class) and were there right up until the end of her life. I’ve never been more happy that I took the time to tell and show someone what they meant to me. I will never forget that time with her – her final lesson to all of us whas dying with dignity and grace. You just never know how much time you have to say what you need to say. What a great idea you had!
     
    Mary Jane Phillips
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  2. Brad Burrill says

    November 9, 2010 at 3:46 pm

    Great idea. I was convinced to join choir in 8th grade by Pat Johnson at D.C. Everest Jr. High in Schofield, WI. Then I got to work with Karen Haines at the Sr. High. The seeds planted there are what led me to become a choral director, and eventually a composer. And of course, my dad was a band director and jazz arranger, and he had a lot of influence on me as well. Thank you to all of these wonderful people who kept me on the path!
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  3. Timothy Banks says

    November 9, 2010 at 3:20 pm

    Bravo, Tim —  It is especially important to thank them while they are still with us here on this earthly coil.
     
    I had a chance to thank Joe Turner, one of my high school choral directors, of Woodlawn High in Bham, before he passed.
    “Uncle Joe,” as we knew him, was almost more cheerleader than choral conductor, but he was a solid influence on seemingly countless fellows who sang with him.
    I cannot forget the thrill of having him attend one of my own rehearsals in my early days of college choral conducting; introducing him to my students was only half of the joy of knowing that he was indeed proud enough of me to give his seal of approval that day.  My own goal is to pass it on to those with whom I work, sometimes thanklessly, but more often thanked by either a Facebook note or by my own observation of their successes in life (musical or otherwise).
     
      Thanks Uncle Joe …  “We meet again tonight, boys, with mirth and song! Let melody flow wherever we go!”
     
    Tim B
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  4. Marie Grass Amenta says

    November 9, 2010 at 2:42 pm

    Tim,
     
    What a good idea.  I have been lucky in  that, while not living in the “town” I grew up in (is Chicago a town?), I am close enough to know what has been happening at my old stomping grounds.  I also have kept in contact with many of the people who influenced me, most notable the late David Lawrence whom many of you know from Carl Fischers, Karnes and J.W. Peppers.  My high school choir director passed away a few years ago (Donald Kitchen) but the freshman director, George Estavez (he founded the Chicago Chamber Choir), is still around and I see him at CSO concerts occassionally.   Some grade school teachers are long gone but Bonnie Prather (5th and 6th grade)taught me to be nice and that manners matter, while not exactly musical, have formed my attitude in dealing with my singers and other directors–they can say what they want about me but I am always a LADY!  Thank you, Miz Bonnie, Gloria and Linda (two of my sisters who also had her) and I will never forget you!
     
    It is so fitting at this time of Thanksgiving–wonderful idea!
     
    Marie
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  5. Tim Sharp says

    November 9, 2010 at 10:43 am

    Terre
    The pants were white, bell bottom, wide-stripe corduroy. The hair was real.
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  6. Terre Johnson says

    November 9, 2010 at 10:33 am

    All I know is it takes a big man to publish that picture of himself 🙂
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  7. Richard Sowers says

    November 9, 2010 at 7:39 am

    Tim, curiously enough I recently have had the same thoughts and feelings.  I plan to do this soon myself.  My life was changed for the better by Rod Gerrard, David Davenport, and John Parshall.
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